Meet my Gardening Friend Ashley.
I call her that because she loves gardening.
Gardening Friend Ashley first commented on my blog post ‘When Food has a Face’. The article is about how supermarkets enable people to disconnect themselves from the reality of animal slaughter. In her comment, Gardening Friend Ashley explained that she grew up in Wisconsin, US with her parents. They lived well below the poverty line, and to survive they grew vegetables in their garden (then preserved them for the winter), they kept chickens for eggs and kept farm animals to eventually slaughter and eat. This was the way they had learnt to survive. Gardening Friend Ashley was in no denial that animals had a face, she had seen their faces and said goodbye to those faces when they were slaughtered. In her words, ‘respect the life and give thanks to it’.
You’d think that would be the end of any relationship for me and Gardening Friend Ashley 😉
I’ve never been in Gardening Friend Ashley’s position and as much as I can’t understand how someone could respect a life at the same time as taking it, I’ve never had to. Therefore, being from two different backgrounds, it is of no surprise that we feel differently about animals: I favour animal rights (the ideology that animals should have the right to live) whereas Gardening Friend Ashley favours animal welfare (the ideology that an animal should have a good life before they are killed for food).
However, the two opposing sides of animal rights and animal welfare meet beautifully in the middle against one common enemy: factory farming.
Growing up with farm animals running around in her garden, Gardening Friend Ashley feels strongly against the captivity and animal abuse that happens on a daily basis as a result of factory farming. Sourcing meat and eggs from local farms can become expensive and as a result, she and her family are mostly vegetarian. If it weren’t for her husband’s aversion to vegetables, they might even have a few vegan days every now and then (she even went vegan for World Vegan Day 2018 when she made a vegan paella!).
No matter how much we may disagree about animals, I appreciate that Gardening Friend Ashley grew up eating meat to survive. She is the only person I know that will buy her food at a local farm if she can afford it, otherwise she and her family will happily go without. I wish there were more people like Gardening Friend Ashley out in the world because, vegan or not, places like factory farms wouldn’t exist.
Are you on the side of animal rights or animal welfare? Make sure your food choices reflect the side you’re on.
If you want to find out how you can be more like Gardening Friend Ashley, then I’d recommend you start by checking out her mega blog here.
Thanks for reading 💚
The Crumby Vegan 
Brilliant observation.
Well done Zoe
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Thank you very much 💚
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I really enjoyed this post! Thought-provoking and well-written.
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Thanks Jemima! 💚
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I love the fact that you have been willing to look so carefully at both sides of the argument – and that you and gardening friend Ashley have a common viewpoint, at least in so far as you are both against factory farming! At home my family always bought from our local farm shop – but where I live now we sadly don’t have that option. I am going to have to look more and more seriously about reducing our meat consumption. Charlie xo
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Thank you for your very positive comments Charlie. That’s great if you and your family can reduce your meat consumption, please let me know if you’d like any tips 💚
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Haha love the name you gave me Zoe, almost as much as I love that we’re able to still come together and talk about what we do agree on while also hearing each other on what we don’t. More than the insight on Versus I’ve learned from you, I more value the fact that we are able to have honest conversation, no matter the issue. People miss out on meeting awesome people when they close their minds on things they disagree with. ❤
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Hahah! I give everyone a name and I thought this one was perfect for you.
There was so much more I could have wrote on this post about how much I’ve learnt from you, but I honestly couldn’t do it justice and hence simplified it. You’ve opened my mind to a whole world that I had never experienced and I can’t thank you enough for that. We’ll fight factory farming together! 💚
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Really loved reading your point of view. I am going to transition to a plant based diet in the new year (easing my way into it!)! Thanks for sharing this!
-madi
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Oh gosh, your comment has made me so happy!
Another mega blogger went vegan last year just like yourself. You should check out her blog: https://beautyforthebrain.com
If you ever need any tips then please don’t hesitate to ask 💚
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Very interesting. I don’t think I’d ever thought about it like that. I have to say, I probably lean more on Gardening Friend Ashley’s side, although I do try VERY hard to stay vegan. You’ve given me a lot to think about!
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I’m surprised that you’re vegan if you’re on the side of animal welfare but that’s great if you are! Thank you for commenting 💚
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This is an interesting perspective. I imagine not many people have thought about this topic in terms of rights vs. welfare.
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Thanks for your comment 💚
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Wow! The truth is that am not even sure the side am on.. and have never looked at it in any of those perspective. Like stephanie said.. its really something to think about.. Its nice sharing this.
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Well I’m very happy that you are now thinking about it 💚
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I can appreciate where you are both coming from. I agree with your friend that animals should not be abused and have to live miserably before they are killed. However, I also can see your view that we should try not to eat animals if we are in the position and have the resources. I agree with both of you that factory farming is a gross injustice to animals. I wish that if we do need to kill animals, that people would do it in the most humane way possible, so that the animal does not have to suffer unnecessarily. Factory farming just sounds like greed and apathy for animals and humanity in general, in my opinion.
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I love that you’re always so balanced Patricia and you can see both sides of a discussion 🙂
Factory farming is definitely the common enemy whatever side of the fence you’re on in this argument 💚
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Agree with you. We have no rights to abuse the animals we grow in farms with love and care. Imagine its shock that the very hand that fed it is actually preparing to butcher it.
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Gosh, your words are so powerful Indrani!
Thank you for making such a poignant comment 💚
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Gosh this made me think! I don’t think I have a side on this debate as such – I believe firmly in welfare but also rights, however having family who have not much choice but to dairy farm for a living I think it’s such a contentious topic!
Ebony x
http://www.theblackandwhiteguide.com
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Absolutely Ebony, and thank you for mentioning your family and their situation. Unless people are given (and taught) another way to make a living, how else are they expected to survive 💚
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I more on the animal welfare. I don’t like to see animals in a cage and rather have them being able to roam.
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That’s great Luci, and I know from your blog that you do a lot of baking. Do you ensure to only buy eggs from local farms when you can see the chickens running around? 💚
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Very thought-provoking post! Can I root for both? I think it’s wrong to abuse animals, but I also think farmers should be more mindful about how they tend to animals. I have relatives that are vegan, and their insight helped me shape my own thoughts about where and what I eat.
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So both of what you describe are actually on the side of animal welfare. Animal rights is all about believing that an animal should not die to fulfill someone’s tastebuds, hence they have a right to life.
I love that your family have helped you out, sounds like you have a lovely vegan family! 💚
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I’ve been slowly transitioning to vegetarian, because I also struggle with eating meat. I was unaware of the idea of animal rights vs. animal welfare, but definitely fall more in your camp with rights.
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That’s fab to hear that you’re slowly transitioning. If you’d ever like any help then please don’t hesitate to let me know 🙂
If you’re in the camp of animal rights, the more you learn about farming, the more you’ll go vegan – it’s great motivation! 💚
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Well said! Such an interesting perspective from Ashley and her way of surviving.
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Very true, I think people will do anything to survive 💚
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Interesting way to look at things. I have started having meatless Mondays and will see if it turns out to be something more.
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Great start Autumn! Just cutting out meat once a week is a fantastic way of learning new recipes that you might like 🙂 Let me know if you would like any ideas 💚
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I’m on the side of animal welfare. I think some animals are created to supply the nutrients that humans need. Also, it’s hard to be a vegan in our country. Vegetables are more expensive than meat.
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Humans don’t need any nutrient from an animal, I and millions of vegans around the world are examples of that 🙂
However I do agree that in some countries it is hugely harder than others and in those situations it would be difficult to go vegan unless something changes 💚
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